Who do you usually talk to when you have trouble??Friends? Lover?? Parents??
But have you ever had the experience that you don't know who you should talk to when you are in a dilemma?? I was in this similar situation few days ago.
Usually, if I have any difficulty, I will definitely talk to one of my cousins or my dear friends and they always give me support. But now, I'm in Sydney and I couldn't see them or contact them very often. Beside them, parents are other good "listeners" for me. However, I'm sure they won't totally understand me this time and if I tell them, I will worry them. Maybe you will ask why I didn't tell my friends here, I just can say......I tried...but.....
I know when I tell anyone about this worry, they would think I just considerate too much. I also know it's impossible to totally understand some one's feeling because somebody else do not stay in the same situation. So, I just kept it in secret but until yesterday.
I think I am lucky, at least there is one who understands or tries to understand my feeling. To be honest, what I need is not an efficient solution or any comfortable saying. What I really need is just a "listener" who is willing to spend me few minutes and not to stop me when I raise my worry.
Now I feel much better after talking to you. I'm really grateful to you for your help. I think I will make the greatest decision soon.
Saturday, August 18, 2007
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5 comments:
Da...
Sometimes, to have a listener to speak to is important and helpful...i am glad to see that you have already released your worries...
"The more you suppress your worries, the more depress you suffer"...find your friend(s) to talk with..i am sure they can be your good listener~ ^.^v...
hello, dear dada... if you would like, you could talk tome, and I will be a very good listener. what are you worrying???? don't be distrubed by these worries, I know you are a very happy girl. I always support you. to be honest, sometimes I also have worries, and I hope someone can listen to me too.
To: Alan and Stephanie
thank you so much.
you two are very good listeners.....
I'm happy to be a friend to you guys~
Cant you use Skype to talk to friends at home?
Sype is great I use it to talk to my friend in Ireland
To: Russell
ir'a a good idea .....
I will try later
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